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You may not have considered bondage as being your thing but it might be worth reading our quick guide – you never know, it must just change your mind….
Bondage isn’t necessarily all about chains and whips- it can be a mutually enjoyable experience for both of you, and ultra sexy too. Set the scene, low lighting, romantic and seductive, a silk tie and a satin blind fold and you could be on your way to sensations like you’ve never felt before.
Remember to take things slowly to begin with – by keeping it fun you’ll get to know each other likes and dislikes and then you can take it further as your confidence grows.
A blindfold is a good place to start if you’ve never tried bondage before – when you take away one of the five senses the other senses kick in to compensate and your body becomes ultra sensitive to touch. Massaging your blindfolded partner is super sexy and erotic and can enhance your experience big time. Or invest in some body paint and tickle and tease whilst painting it on before slowly and tantaslingly licking it off. Add some kinky bondage tape and you’ve ramped it up a level.
Bondage tape in itself has many uses – a quick blindfold, a gag, wrist or ankle tie, the beauty of the tape is its versatility – it won’t stick to your skin, but it sticks to itself and can even be used again. Or simply pin your partners arms to the bed if you’re still testing the water – this can be equally effective in arousing the senses.
Be warned though – if choose a makeshift restraint such as a scarf or dressing gown belt go carefully as some material (such as nylon) will get tighter if pulled, knots can become difficult or near impossible to undo in a hurry! The last thing you want is to be panicking you can’t get free – you don’t want to get caught up in a tangle! A better choice would be some soft cotton bondage rope which is suitable for beginners and experienced users alike.
So far do good – you’re enjoying your new experience…..but you may wish to take things further……has your partner been a little bit naughty? Maybe they need a good spanking? It can be a good idea to start with a little massage of the buttock area, then add a few little slaps here and there, then when you are ready you can go a bit harder. If you find this is for you then you can look into a paddle or crop in the future – the Fifty Shades Of Grey Twitchy Palm Spanking Paddle would be a good introduction. Or if you find you want a more intense experience you could try a crop –this can give a good stinging sensation which might be the erotic addition you’ve both been craving. You could try the back to school Bamboo Cane – you could really leave the mark of love
You may wish to swap and experiment – this is great as it’s not all about being in control. Many couples don’t have a dominant partner and both get pleasure from being submissive and being dominated. Don’t forget, this is best done in an established trusting relationship – not recommended on a first date! Always agree a safe word before you start just in case your partner feels uncomfortable with anything and always stop immediately if they use it!
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